We made a very quick 48 hour trip to Santa Monica, California for my cousin Matthew's wedding. Matthew and his sister Robin are my only two first cousins. Their father Steven was my dad's older (10 years older) brother. My uncle Steven passed away several years ago leaving my dad the only one alive in his immediate family. It was very important to all of us that we were there to celebrate this exciting time in Matthew's life. Plus I had not seen him since my wedding 4 years ago. We flew out Saturday morning and came back Monday evening. My parents traveled with me (Philip couldn't go due to a work business trip).
I was so proud of my packing job since we only took carry on luggage. I packed both Asher's clothes, back up Asher clothes and my clothes, shoes, hat, wipes, tolietries, pump and all the of the pump pieces into this carry on piece of luggage. We also took an umbrella stroller and Asher's car seat attached to the GoGo Kidz Travelmate (which I blogged about previously). Side note: This was totally worth every penny I paid for it (I also split the sale price with a friend and we will share it!)

We got to the gate as they were boarding, opps! So, we had no time to refill our empty water bottles, go to the bathroom or get any snacks. Our flight heading out of Charlotte took off around nap time so I thought we would be in great shape. What I forgot was that my child is a busy body and wants to know everything that is going on at all times...so nap time didn't really happen THE ENTIRE 4 1/2 hour flight. Thankfully we had an entire row for Asher to crawl over us on, but that didnt mean everyone brought ear plugs. Asher was not his normal angel self. He was constantly wiggling. The turbulence was pretty bad the entire flight. Drinks were not served until almost 3 hours into the flight...let's not forget that we didnt have time fill up our water bottles. My mom was smart and brought us all sandwiches to eat since we would be flying during lunch time. Asher finally crashed for less than 30 minutes. We decided that despite the pediatricians wishes we were giving him benadryl on the way home. Sorry Dr Matt!
When we arrived at our hotel we knew we needed to get Asher down for a nap. As we walked into our room I noticed a very distinct odor which I exclaimed, "uhh I think someone was smoking in here" My dad replies, "yes, marijuana". We quickly called down to the front desk to find out that the person that stayed in this NON SMOKING room left without paying for the room. Go figure. During the time we were waiting to switch room my mom noticed Asher cut his top two teeth!!!! No wonder why he wasn't on his best behavior on the flight. He was in PAIN! After we got some tylenol in his system he finally napped (and he thought he was out for the night)! The time change fooled him. We woke him up to take him to rehearsal wedding festivities.
The next day we headed to the
Annenburg Community Beach House for the wedding at 1030am. The ceremony took place on the beach and the brunch reception was at The Beach House. The Beach House is so green it was awarded a LEED Gold rating by the US Green Building Council. The wedding parties rode their bikes to the facility and they made it their priority to make very "green choices."
Pre-Ceremony Photos
Spencer and Robin cheesin before the ceremony

My Dad and Matthew exchanging words before the nuptuials

Asher and I hanging out before the wedding

My boy loves the beach...even when its cold and windy!


When we arrived at the ceremony we found out that Ashley (the bride) knew a few folks at TLC and they asked to film the wedding for the season finale of "The Wedding Story" to air in November. Not to mention both Matthew and Ashley both work in the film industry so there were cameras every where!

Asher loved spending time with Nana and the Parasols

...and running his hands through the sand...
and eating it!

My dad was one of the chuppah (wedding canopy) pole carriers

Matthew and Ashley are very non traditional and we love them for it! Matthew wore dark denim pants, a denim jacket, and converse shoes. Ashley's dress was made of 3 vintage gowns from a costume shop and her mother's wedding gown. It had an old Hollywood meets Vintage Rocker feel. I personally thought it was awesome and it fit her personality perfectly.
Aunt Doris and Matthew before walking down the aisle

It was quite a chilly and windy day...but it made for a gorgeous veil shot!

Ashley had a MAN OF HONOR. He wore a feather in his kippah.

After the ceremony they escaped to this LifeGuard house on the beach! Can you see them?

The centerpieces were amazing. Chunks of Hydrangea were scattered throughout the branches

The food was AMAZING.
They served peach and watermelon martinis that were amazing.
Bagels, Lox, Cream Cheese, Fresh Organic Salad, Chicken Tenders, Fruit Tray, Egg Souffle with Goat Cheese, Potato Latkes with freshly made chunky applesauce, Challah French Toast and homemade Cupcakes.


Poppy and Asher with full bellies!

Check out that stunning bride!

Dress detail


Nana and Asher

Asher with his ladies. He was obsessed with them.

After the wedding we returned to the hotel for Nap time. We ALL needed it by then.
Our entire family met up that night for a dinner at a local Italian restaurant by the Santa Monica pier and Ashley and Matthew joined us...still in there wedding attire!

Matthew and his nephew Spencer

Robin and I with Spencer

Matthew's other cousins, Amy and Shari

Asher always goes for Nana's necklaces!

Asher was such a trooper the entire time we were in California. We did drug him on the way home...and he did sleep a little over and hour. The flight was much better and he was a little bit calmer. We survived and were thankful it was a direct flight.
Upon arrival our plane had to wait on the tarmac for the other plane to pull away. Once we pulled up to the gate the plane started to deboard. All of a sudden they stopped letting people off. Right after my dad got off the plane. The gate had dropped and they were afraid it was going to rip the plane door off which would cost $200k+. My mom and I were stuck on the plane with a baby who had a stinky diaper (of course my kid pooped as we were landing!). While all the craziness was going on in front of us the pilot invited us to bring Asher into the cockpit for photos. ASHER LOVED IT! Maybe he will be our future pilot!?!? After some time passed we finally were able to get off the plane even though they never fixed the problem. We have no clue what happened and at that point we didn't care.


We made it coast to coast in 48 hours!
Mazal Tov to Matthew and Ashley. The wedding was perfect.
They will spend the next month in Bali on their honeymoon.
ps. I had an eye infection and was forced to wear my glasses the entire trip except for the ceremony per the dr's orders. Ugh!