Adult Time...

We finally made it out for some "Adult Time" for Jen's 28th birthday!

Nana and Poppy came over to babysit (although I put Asher to sleep before we left we really appreciated them hanging out at our house to watch him and a movie!)

We got all dressed up ...in black. Philip wore a black button up dress shirt!?!? I thought I was seeing things. He never wears black and I love it on him! We headed uptown to Enso, a new Asian - Fusion Sushi Restaurant at the EpiCentre.

We enjoyed hanging out with our friends, celebrating Jen's birthday and eating delicious sushi!

Enso makes birthdays extra special with Champagne or Sake for everyone at the table and a delicious piece of their Chocolate Mousse Cake.

We forgot what it was like to go out to a nice quiet dinner and not having to rush home for 7 PM bedtime. We had a 3 hour dinner! We also forgot what "night life" is like. I think we can do without remembering this.... We saw more women dressed up in inappropriate clothing (the very short skirt/dresses are back "in style" and were out in FULL FORCE). By 10:30 PM we were exhausted and ready to see our little Angel asleep in his crib.

Oh how life has changed...for the better!

Sweet & Sour

One minute we have Asher and all his sweetness with his little lady....

An hour later we have this...

Passed out sour Asher with vomit all over himself....

...and mommy, the reciever of the majority of the projectile vomit...

We can now look back and laugh at this, however at the time...or about 5 minutes prior to these photos we were NOT laughing. We are still not really sure how all of this went down or why it happened. We were at Marshalls/Homegoods picking up a few gifts and much needed clothing items. Asher started to get a little fussy so I took him to the seats near the front doors of the store so I could nurse him with my cover. The sounds of the doors opening and closing and the shopping carts clanging together were really upseting him (he startles easily). He ate but couldnt fall asleep from all of the noise. I brought him back inside and met Philip at the front of the store. Asher was still acting fussy after putting him in the stroller so I picked him up to ove on him. Visual aide: I was holding him and we were facing belly to belly in the middle of the store and BLAHHHHHH. Just like that. He projectile vomitted all over my chest. In my hair, down my shirt and all over himself. I stood there stunned. He did it AGAIN! Philip stood there stunned. Both of us speechless, staring at each other. He quickly grabbed a burp cloth and stuffed it between Asher and I. Philip asked me what I wanted to do. I replied, "Go Home" holding back to the tears. I went directly to the car. He dropped all of our items (which was almost an entire stroller filled with things) and met me out at the car. Later he confessed that after I walked away to go out to the car he busted out laughing. Asher fell asleep on me as I sat in the car waiting for Philip to come rescue me. If I was alone I would've broken down. I was on the verge of tears and I even had help. We changed Asher's clothes in the trunk pictured above...but I had to sit in vomit for the car ride home. Our car ride home went something like this, "So this is what being parents is all about, huh!?" "I knew this would eventually happen to us" "I wonder if he is sick?" "I think you need a shower". We got home...I cleaned up and Asher slept for an hour, nursed again and slept for another hour and a half nestled up against me.

Needless to say we are still not sure what that was all about. Asher is on a new medicine for reflux and I honestly think its made his reflux worse. He has been spitting up much more often (he rarely spit up before). Burping with crazy digestive noises. He had an episode this weekend post projectile vomit where his head cranked to the side for about 12 hours. We've seen this before but never associated with vomit.

Dr. Matt (pediatrician) will be receiving a phone call Monday morning....

Fun times. Oh and we fly to Alabama Wednesday morning.

Spitting up, projectile vomitting baby must cease prior to Wednesday.

Bless this baby...

Asher's date night

Last night we ventured out while daddy was out of town for work.

We dont typically go out on weeknights because by the time we get out and back its bed time. We would much rather hang out and play at the house or go on a walk.

Sarah's mom was in town to go wedding dress shopping and to narrow down the wedding reception location. We wanted to catch a quick visit since we love them both dearly and Sarah's mom lives in Ohio. She also had not met Asher yet. Asher got all dressed up for the occassion. Afterall he had a hot date with "the ladies".

We had a great time catching up...passing around Asher, watching him attempt to sit up and talking about their wedding progress.

Sarah found her dress instantly...signed sealed, paid. DONE! Amazing.

She looks beautiful in it and I she is relieved to have that checked off the list. Shd also found two bridesmaid dress options....oh wedding planning fun times.

Thanks for letting us come by...even if it was only for an hour.

Asher turns into a devil after 6:45 so we had to hurry home for bedtime!

All things new

After a great suggestion from our nanny (she always has great suggestions!)

we put together Asher's high chair which has been sitting in a box since March.

I was debating if we were going to keep the Svan High Chair or return it for the Stokke (same price. different functionality). His high chair was a gift from Asher's great grandma Pearl. We are thrilled that we decided to keep it. Asher LOVES it! He looks like such a big boy in his high chair and loves being up "high", sitting secured without toppling over and at the table with us! We love it too! No more rushing to the swing or the floor or holding him while we eat (he was becoming my napkin). He has already mastered throwing things off the high chair tray!

We put on the our new "Oy Baby" CD that Softa brought Asher from the Reform Jewish Biennial Conference. This is Asher's 2nd Oy Baby CD and he LOVES THEM! All of the songs remind me of camp and Philip was shocked I knew almost all of them. We are getting Asher started early on his Jewish education and ready for Hanukkah! He was jamming out, laughing and singing. More like mommy and daddy were dancing and singing while he laughed at us. Sounds good right!?Somehow we didnt capture a photo or video of this but we will later.

I can picture what he is thinking here, "I can rest my feet down there and put toys up here!? Can I do this naked too?"

Talking on his "cell phone"

Philip testing Asher's strength and grip. Quite impressive for 5 months! We have no idea where this toy came from but of course the plastic toys are always his favorite...

Can I rip this toy apart with my big muscles!?

Asher's new smile...always accompanies his pointy tongue sticking out!

Pointy tongue smile...while being brainwashed by daddy. He is already learning to hold his NC State football. We start early. He will be throwing next week.

...and that wraps up all things new in our house this week!

Weakness...

You are my weakness.

I cant stop once I start.

Where is my self control that I used to be so good about?

It must have left when the breast feeding (diet) began...

Oh excuses...

I need help.

I should've taken Philip up on the offer to bring these to work and get them out of the house!

The Sunday Student

Sunday night Philip always turns into the "student"

He sets up shop with his computer at the kitchen table and begins his hours of homework.

Homework and quizzes are always due Sunday night before midnight.

With our crazy schedules he is very limited on time that he can actually commit to homework so Sunday night has become "the night".

He has been taking one class each semester for the past three semesters. He took the summer semster off since I was due in June.

Typically class is Tues & Thurs nights from 6-8 or 9.

I have attempted to be as supportive of a wife as possible over the past three semester's through pregnancy and now parenthood...

I admit. Its very tough. On him and on me.

Some weeks he goes 2-3-4 days without seeing Asher because he is asleep when he leaves for work and asleep when he gets home at night.

Tonight he decided to spice homework night up with glow sticks that we got from a birthday party this weekend and a beer (blog to follow). Needless to say it "lightened" the not so light mood and called for a photo. He always sets up shop so that he can watch Sunday football. I snapped a photo when Philip wasnt expecting it, hence the facial expression. Doesn't he look thrilled!? Thankfully tonight he finished at 9 PM vs the normal midnight!

Through all of the stress of daily life, family, work, school and caring for Asher...this simple glow stick made us both smile & laugh. I am so very proud of him for sticking to his classes even though right now is probably the toughest time in his life to be a student, husband, father and son.

Oh yeah...next semester he is taking a class online so that he can spend more time with us at home while Asher is awake! He will be starting his MBA classes next fall ... he had lots of pre-req's to get out of the way before he began his MBA journey!

We are so proud of you...our Sunday Student!

Reunion Rewind

Over Ten Years ago I graduated High School

Ten years ago is 1/3 of my lifetime.

Although it seems like quite a long time ago it felt like yesterday (minus a few marriages, weight gains/losses, kids, and different hair do's).

Last weekend we took a road trip to Raleigh for the night to attend my 10 year high school reunion. We started the day off with a picnic at Pullen Park with a few friends who also had kids since we were in high school. We had gorgeous weather and the kids enjoyed a picnic lunch, feeding the ducks, riding the carousel/train and playing in the grass.

Cassidy, one of my best friends dating back to before high school, with Asher and her younger daughter Keelyn. Keelyn is a few months shy of 2 and her other daughter Hailey is 4. Cassidy is married to Andrew and Philip gets along with him famously. They are dying to play golf and have been talking about it for the past 2 years...probably since the last time they played together. They joined us at the park for some fall fun! Check out Keelyn's shades...she is stylin.

Sarah (Lane) Ivy was a very good friend in high school and we recently reconnected through Cassidy and blogging. She is a momma of two sweet boys, Lane (2) and Tate (6 months) and wife to Lee. During our recent pregnancy's we swapped stories and she has been a great resource and friend over the past year through pregnancy to parenthood. Spending time with her and her family was an extra special treat...got to love life with boys...!

Anna has been a dear friend of mine since college and she just returned from living in Hawaii the past 2 years. She met up with us at the park so she could finally meet Asher. We are so thrilled to have her back on the mainland!

Asher's first carousel ride!

Cassie is a dear friend from college and she met up with us at the park so she could meet Asher. Now that we are both mom's our time is so limited and we had not met up since Asher was born. Cassie is a mommy to Garrett who just turned one this past weekend! Garrett looks just like his daddy and is sweeter than pie. He is starting to walk and gave us a little show on the lawn at the park.

After the park we stopped at the NC State bookstore and Philip bought Asher a mini football, basketball and a soccer ball. Asher fell dead asleep in the car. He had not napped ALL DAY and was clearly exhausted. Our plan was to head over to Lauren and Shawn's house to relax, hang out and prep for the big high school reunion later that night.

Andrea, Lauren, Tara and I had a blast catching up all afternoon...just like the old days. Our sweet husbands hung out in the man room and watched football all afternoon. Before we left I put Asher down to sleep and got ready. Lauren's mom stayed with Asher and Lauren's daughter Ella grace for us while we went to the reunion. This was the first time we left Asher with someone other than family!

10 years later and not too much has changed...

The reunion was held at Foster's in Cameron Village. I THOUGHT it was going to be a sit down dinner however I was clearly mistaken. The food was less than impressive but the company was great. I LOVED high school. I have very fond memories of Friday night football games, playing soccer, diversity, chorus, random groups of friends, boyfriends etc. Almost ALL of my closest friends from high school attended so it was great to catch up...even if the conversations were so very generic ("Where do you live? What do you do? Kids? Married?).

Cassidy, Sarah & I stealing a quick photo....we took about 10 and this was the only one that one of us wasnt laughing with our mouth wide open, talking or looking ridiculous in...It was quite a nice night for the three of us who all have kids and don't get out often...just adults!

Todd, Alison and Angie...Chorus friends!

Scott Guirlinger was a very good friend in high school. Not only did we have the same birthday, March 27th BUT we both got the senior superlative MOST SPIRITED our Senior year!

Cassidy's husband Andrew and Philip hanging out. The photo that followed this was not blog appropriate...again they don't get out often...yet still act like BOYS!

Nina Cloud & I

Andrea (my best friend), Jon Frazier, Muwah and Stephen Jeffress

Jon and Stephen were two of my close guy friends in high school. Stephen actually dated Cassidy back in high school and my high school boyfriend (Steve) and I hung out with them often.

My girls... Lauren and Andrea.

As the night was coming to an end we busted up a conversation the guys were having...

It went something like this, "The girls still look the same: beautiful. They haven't aged like the guys have!" Too funny. Yet too true. Most of the guys showed there age a lot more than the girls...a few extra pounds, a lot less hair or no hair for that matter.

Thank you to the class of 1999 and the reunion coordinators.

It was truly a night to remember....

On the drive home we got stopped at a DWI checkpoint. The last time this happened to me I was 17. Not even legal age to drink. Although I knew I was safe I can not even begin to tell you the anxiety I felt as I passed through the checkpoint. Crazy that one of the first nights out for Philip and I as "parents" we encounter a DWI checkpoint. It was 11:30 pm. My eye make up was smudged (allergies) and my eyes were bloodshot (allergies). They passed us through and home we went to see our sweet angel still asleep in his pack n play.

Sunday morning we enjoyed Chocolate Croissant's with Lauren, Shawn and Ella Grace before we hit the road for Duke Gardens where we were scheduled to meet with Courtney (Berryman) Gray, a friend from high school, for family photos. Coming soon...

We had quite an eventful weekend and we were so exhausted by the time we got home on Sunday. Asher barely napped all weekend so we were thrilled to get home at a decent time and into our own beds! Cheers to another ten years!

Baby Steps...

Today was a Big Day for Mommy....

and a Big Day for Asher.

The nanny took him in her car to her house TEN MILES AWAY.

Yeah I confess, I was freaked out over ten miles....but deep down I knew it would be just fine.

I am extremely comfortable with Debby (the nanny). Asher adores her.

I knew this day would come....and I was ready to face it head on.

I need to be comfortable with her taking him outside the house.

I want him to go to the library, song sessions, playdates, the park...

He needs to have interaction with other people & other babies.

She took him to her house for a playdate with her grandson Ethan who happens to be one week younger than Asher. Ethan and Asher couldnt be shaped more differently but side by side you really can't tell! Asher is squatty and heavy and Ethan is long and thin.

They had a great time together...

touching each other, rolling into each other and most of all smiling at each other.

Based on the photos they had an absolute blast. By the time she brought him home he was dead asleep in his carseat!

It's never a dull moment

I feel like I am constantly using this saying..."It's never a dull moment!"

I have a feeling I will continue to say this for the next 18+ years...

With this face I could be in big trouble!

I havent been the best about blogging or opening up about a lot of things that have been going on with Asher and honestly (and probably surprisingly to many readers) I am comfortable keeping it that way. I want to share, but I don't want to deal with questions. We have no answers for the questions. Frustrating concept huh? Imagine how we feel.

I will take prayers. What shoud you pray for you might ask? Pray for answers...Pray that Asher will continue to grow to be a healthy, strong and loving baby....

What I am comfortable with is that Asher is fine and we are confident he will be fine...

Every test he needed has been run. Everything is "normal". Whatever normal means these days. He has seen and will see some of the best pediatric specialists around to make sure that we give him the care he needs, when he needs it!

Asher is typically a VERY happy, smiley, babbling, 5 MONTH OLD.

Yup. Today he turned 5 months old.

He is hitting all of his milestones on time and even advanced in many areas.

5 months still sounds little to me. 6 months sounds big...and too old for my little (well not really) man.

Check out that chunky face!

Asher is huge. Almost 20 lbs huge. Bigger than most friends 12-18 month olds, but who is comparing? Philip asked the pediatricians at the hospital (yes, we have been to the hospital more than once) if what is going on with Asher (yes, not so normal things are going on) is possibly due to gigantism...Yes he really asked them this!?!? We all laughed out loud. I mean he is big, but he isnt THAT big. I love you honey. And No, he doesnt have gigantism hahahah!

We can't get enough of him. We kiss him constantly. He loves to hold our faces now when we kiss him. He loves to pinch our skin or pull our hair. His fine motor skills are really developing. He is extremely strong. He also happens to be extremely stiff and is not a big snuggler unless he is feeling crummy or very tired. I was a very very stiff baby and was not a cuddler either. Great. He has all of my undesireable traits. So far he has perfect eyes/vision (yes he has been to a pediatric eye doctor) and she said he tracked so well he was even advancd for his age. That definitey doesn't take after me. He is as handsome as his daddy. He is a spitting image of Philip. His eyes still have not made up their minds. Blue on the outside and green and brown in the middle. Quite striking with those mile long eyelashes and gignatic cheeks.

No Really. This kid is yummy. He loves to get attention. If you are not paying attention to him he will make sure he changes that by squealing and smacking his lips. He is content in his bumbo even though his legs are very squished in there. We think he will be sitting up unsupported very soon, but just isnt there yet. He is taking naps on his belly now (we are hoping his flat head starts to round back out!). He is still on breast milk excusively. He still hates the bottle. They tried to give him a pacifier in the hospital after I told them they could try. Guess what. He didnt take it...even with some sweet stuff they put on it. He would much rather his entire hand in his mouth. He gets shy in front of other people. It takes time for him to warm up. When there are a lot of people in the room he turns to "mellow baby". Quiet, calm, cool and collected which is good because he comes off as a very well behaved baby...

Happy 5 month Birthday to our our Angel Asher.

We love you and we are so blessed to be your parents.

Amelia Bedila is in the house!

Last night I decided I NEEDED to run the dishwasher because my MOTHER was nagging me about the dishes (2) that were sitting in the sink since LUNCH.

Our house has been in quite dissaray this week from neglect. I admit that in the least.

Priorities shifted elsewhere.

In addition to a miscommunication with cleaning lady ... she wont be coming till next week.

Needess to say our house is a wreck and my hair is shedding EVERYWHERE.

I mean EVERYWHERE...in my purse, in Asher's diaper's, on the floor, on my computer, in my own underwear. It's out of control.

SO back to the DISHWASHER. Somehow we ran out of detergent pellets. You would think with my couponing that I would've stock piled...uh NO. Of course not...not when you need something!

Somehow I got this genius idea in my state of delerium to put dish soap in the dishwasher. Sounds like common sense, right?

Uh yeah. What the heck was I thinking and why did I think this was OK at 28 years old!?

I was so embarassed I did it I couldnt admit it to Philip for the first 30 minutes we sat there laughing at the site we saw in front of us...

(I didnt take photos of the actual overflow...but this is what it looked like)

We ran the rinse cycle 3 times now and still can't get rid of the suds. Suggestions!?!

Amelia Bedila is in full force folks...god help us all!